“Before You Buy That Baby Product…”

 One Mom Figuring It Out – One Real Choice at a Time

Let’s be honest — the moment you become a mom, the world throws a never-ending wishlist at you.

Bathtubs. Bouncers. Rattles. Teethers. Swings. Diaper warmers. Nursing pillows. Bottle sterilizers. Play gyms. Activity tables. Feeding chairs. Toys that talk. Toys that bounce. Toys that light up.

And you? You’re exhausted… and tempted.
You start adding all of it to your mental bucket list because:

"It looks cute."
"Maybe it’ll help."
"Everyone else has it."

But here’s the truth — especially if you’re living alone with your husband, handling the baby mostly by yourself:

You don’t need everything.

Start by looking at your space.
Do you have enough room to keep that fancy rocker or swing?
Is that toy really needed right now — or is your baby still more interested in grabbing your face and chewing your hair?

Most babies co-sleep till 6 months.
Most don’t really engage with toys until they start flipping and sitting.
Most teething babies will cry and cling — not get distracted by plastic things.

And guess what? Many products are not even doctor-recommended.
You end up washing and sanitizing 50 times a day, feeling more stressed instead of supported.

💡 A Simple Thought:

Only buy what truly helps you.
A bathtub? Yes, if it eases your back.
A feeding pillow? Maybe.
Fancy toys? Not yet.
A warm fruit basket or baby towel set? Much more helpful — even as gifts.

🎁 Speaking of Gifts...

When I was a new mom, people came with so many bath sets, creams, soaps… even moms gifted them.
But honestly? My baby has sensitive skin. Many products were never used.
What could’ve really helped? A simple diaper bag, some cotton nappies, or even fresh fruits for the new mom.

I still remember going for a checkup and seeing a baby — maybe 2 months old — in only one thin innerwear. My heart broke.

I realized how lucky my daughter is — and how needed compassion is.

So moms, when your baby outgrows clothes, don’t just store them — wash and pass on to someone who can’t afford much.

It might be a small act for you — but a big moment of relief for someone else. 

💛 In the End:

Buy smart.
Buy slowly.
Buy only what supports your motherhood, not the internet’s idea of it.

And when you gift another mom — gift with heart, not habit.

You don’t need a mountain of stuff.
You need peace, space, and a smiling baby.
And that’s more than enough.

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Love,
One Mom Figuring It Out – One Real Choice at a Time
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